They broadly deal with how such knowledges are interpreted through lived moments, such as cinema, museums and public monuments. The use of several overlapping, yet differently interpreted themes relating to lived experiences and history shows them as symbolic transitional justice policies. Situated in a post-Yugoslav geographic space, where ethnic conflicts still hinder development, people rest much on the interpretation of the meaning of lived experiences, and the role of images, arts, myths and stories, which are used to either create or dissemble the path to peace between the many ethnic communities that inhabit this area of Europe. By examining the role of arts and memory creation, this introductory article posits these against the background of a problematic reconciliation process in post-conflict areas of the Western Balkans as its core topic. However, an unexplored alley of scholarly interest remains in the role of the arts in these processes. Scholarly literature on the subject went in the directions of transitional justice, social psychology and socio-political approaches. You just need to put yourself first.The violent demise of Yugoslavia and the bloody period that marked most of the 1990s in this region have sparked academic interest in the peacebuilding and reconciliation initiatives which emerged after the conflict. You won't feel comfortable if you take him back, you will just be doing it because you feel bad. Letting him back because you feel guilty is emotional manipulation. I don't know if your situation mirrors mine but you just need to be firm op.
He promises me he will change, he has changed, he can be the husband I need, he can be there for me and love me. My H is constantly playing mind games with me. He didn't bring any good into their lives (my youngest DS included although he loves his daddy very much) apart from financially.
And ha gambles which he used to include the dcs in. He is a man child that can't look after himself. My H isn't a good role model for any of the dcs. Considering they had been on his life for 6 years, they aren't asking to see him, don't want to go back home etc. I've found that out from them since I left. I have 2 main reason for not going back when it comes to my dcs. I have one DS with him and 2 from my previous relationship (I'm doing great in life I know ) I feel like i was doing ok but am now back in chaos and guilt. I have told him I think him getting his own suitable place is the right option, as I would want to see long term change and couldn't risk letting him back in the house, only for things to go back to how they were.Īm I mad for even entertaining us sorting this out with so much water under the bridge? I still have doubts as to whether it is me he misses, or the cushy family life he messed up whereby I did far too much wife work and he lived his own life. I feel that this is more to do with the expense/inconvenience of moving from where he is living. He has said he doesn't want to do this and wants to come home. He has moved out and is moving somewhere suitable to have the dc early next year. I am also having serious doubts about him keeping up his 'good" behaviour. I still love him deeply, but have definitely lost trust in him. We have been getting along better and he has told me he loves me and wants to try again. Dh and I seperated in the summer as a result of quite rubbish behaviour on his part, combined with his general lack of interest in me and family life.